Friday, June 29, 2012

Career Secret #10: Get Ready To Change...Again

As I write this final segment of Career Secrets, I am in mid-transition with my own professional journey.  In March, I accepted a position that placed me in the top tier of a large healthcare organization.  Of course, this was my goal and I prepared myself in every way imaginable.  

Up until now, each step of my advancement was due to my ability to make key contacts and, in so doing, dictate the pace and creativity of my environment. Through repeated success, I felt confident taking this skill into my new role. 

Except - surprise - that's not the skill that is required now.  

Now, instead of overseeing a staff, or making unilateral decisions, my role is one of support and encouragement to our 23 hospitals.  Now, I represent the organization's culture with group discussions, frequent presentations and regular visits to hospital leadership throughout the system.  Now, instead of dictating change, I watch as decisions are made only after they've been passed through numerous committees for approval. 

Even though my income has increased and I have almost endless freedom and flexibility, slowing myself down and learning new ways to make an impact in this environment is the hardest work I've ever done.

Yes, I know, I know.

'OMG, what are you whining about?' (Inner Critic never misses an opportunity)
'What am I supposed to do with my creative energy?'
'Was all of the hard work worth it?'
'Who am I now?'

When you achieve the success you are working toward now, you will ask yourself these questions because the skills required to get to the top are different than the skills needed to succeed once you're there.

Think about the movie, Titanic

Remember the guys down under, shoveling coal, making the ship run?  And the musicians who set the mood and capture the environment?  That's you working your way to the top.  Now, think of the captain of the ship, strolling around leisurely, drinking tea and calmly telling others what to do (someone else was supposed to be watching for icebergs...).  That's you at the top.  It takes some getting used to.

Tips for reinventing yourself as you advance to higher levels:

1)  You may have moved your career forward because of what you did, but you will reach top levels because of who you are.  Remember this, and rely on it as you're settling into this new role.  Become your most authentic self.

2)  Ask a lot of questions and make them smart ones.  You know more than you think.  A huge career leap is both exciting and intimidating.  But you didn't reach this level because you know nothing.

3)  Become more personal with your colleagues.  Loosen your boundaries just a bit and share some aspects of your personal life.  It's safer now because the competition has diminished.  And in a role that carries power, revealing more of your true self will put people at ease quickly.

4)  Ask for what you need.  Just because you're new in the role, the organization doesn't necessarily see you that way.  In fact, you are expected to have requests.  Whether it's additional staff, better equipment or inclusion in a decision making council, ask for what you want - you'll most likely get it.

5)  Relax. Take an hour out of your day to go shopping, enjoy a long lunch with your sister or walk through the park midafternoon.  Work from home now and then.  No one's tracking your every move and you've earned some freedom.  So take it with no guilt.

Unforeseen Challenge:  You have just advanced into a high level role, but inside, you feel like a newbie.  To everyone else in the organization, you're a rock star.  Even those who see you as one of the 'suits' can't help sucking up when you're in their presence. They will say things like, 'we're so honored to have you here,' and 'we'll take whatever direction you think we should.'  You will always be invited to address the group, and whatever you say is profound to them.  This will mess with your mind because you are just beginning to understand your new role, and you're treated like royalty simply because you occupy the role.  This disconnect is unsettling, so if you haven't yet sought therapeutic support during your rapid career advancement, I strongly encourage you to do so now.

Most of all, congratulations.  Through your own hard work and smart strategy, you have advanced to the top of your field.  Few people achieve this, so pat yourself on the back and feel good about your accomplishment.  Then begin the work of changing yourself into someone who understands and creates the big picture, a person who is comfortable having both influence and freedom, intimacy and power. 

Now, you are ready and able to ignite the future of your dreams.

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  1. Hey Josephine. I've been enjoying this series even though I'm currently unemployed and secretly (actually not so secretly) never want to work again.


  2. Hey, Frida - so nice to hear from you! It sounds like you're enjoying yourself and you should stay free of work for as long as you want. My husband has been retired for several years, and there are many days I envy his ability to arrange his life however he wants. But, as he reminds me, there are days he envies me, too. I guess there are advantages to both ways of life. I always enjoy your posts and wish you the very best. Thanks again for your comment!

  3. This is my first comment on your blog and I feel lucky to found it. You shared really interesting story of achievement. Thanks


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  4. Hi Grays - thanks for stopping by. Glad you have enjoyed the Career Secrets series. Hope to see you again in the future!

  5. Excellent series! I have enjoyed every one of your posts. Your perspective and wisdom will inspire anyone lucky enough to read these. Relish your deserve it ALL!

  6. Thanks, Mermaid! Your encouragement has really made a difference and the compliment means a lot coming from you. I'm adjusting to this new life...relishing is just around the corner.



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